The Sexual Compatibility Test

I once told girlfriends, "You can tell how good of a lover he will be, by how he kisses you." Most recently my tune is "You can tell how sexually compatible he will be by the way he hugs you."

Sex is pretty important to me. It's a deal breaker. If he's not good in bed, well then, it is going to be over sooner rather than later. Trouble is, to find out whether he's appropriately equipped for you, or not, you have to fuck him. And, if he is one of those guys that thinks you are cheap for having sex with him early on, he'll just cast you aside. So what is a red-blooded American girl to do?

Follow my lead, and test him out with his hugs first. A man who leans in and envelopes you with his arms, is sure to be a fantastic love. If he sort of just hangs on, and is in a neutral position, that is a red-flag. Most likely he will have some hang-ups. Now if he leans back, and makes you do the hugging, that is a sign he has selfish tendencies. He may even hold out on you when you really need a good fuck.

Kissing is the next way to determine he will be a good lover, before you actually end up in bed with him. Kissing preferences are very much an individual thing, so I will not go into that here. You decide.

So how else do you determine whether or not he will be good in bed? Press yourself against him so
you can feel his hard-on or lack thereof. Pretty simple. Do not use your hand! This is way too forward while you are in the "Mating Dance" stage of your relationship. (Once you're established as a monogamous couple, this is a surefire way to get some really good dick, and you can use your hand as often as you like. He will be very grateful.)

At the Mating Dance stage, be sure to let him make the first move when it comes to sex, if you want to keep him for awhile - -  that is, as long as he has passes your Sexual Compatibility Test for hugging and kissing. Before I knew about this test, I had one guy finger me off while we were in the Mating Dance stage, and he freaked out afterwards. It was his idea! What did he think would happen if he stuck his hand in my panties and stimulated my female genitalia? IMPORTANT NOTE: He was a neutral hugger. I know what I am talking about here. 

Once you are satisfied that you and your intended lover are sexually compatible, let him be a man and have him work to win you.  Let him enjoy the thrill of the hunt! Anticipation is an aphrodisiac. In a matter of a month or so, you will experience sexual bliss!

Be sure to comment with your own Sexual Compatibility Tests.